Poor Ian, he's right in the throes of teenagerhood (yes, that's a real word, even if it's not an "official" word). I feel like all we do is yell at him. Even if it starts off innocently enough, it ends up with us yelling at him. It would help if he would lose the 'tude. I don't understand, he's a smart kid. If he would just ACT like he's paying attention it wouldn't be so bad for him. I love him, but sometimes I feel like everything we're doing with him is wrong. I'm afraid we're going to mold him into some weird serial killer or a bizarre fetishist (yes, that's my word too) because he's afraid to do anything at all at home for fear of getting yelled at. This is supposed to be his time to learn how to be a man, right? I don't know. I just don't know. He just keeps getting in trouble for his attitude which gets privileges taken away, so I feel like he never gets to do anything. But if he'd just do what he's supposed to, he'd be able to get out and do more. I don't know. I just hope we're doing it right. I guess you don't find out until they're grown, huh?